In my experience as someone who lives in Pattaya and is HIV+ very few LB's would volunteer the information easily and generally the few that would are actually the ones who have faced up to the reality of living a healthy lifestyle with HIV (as I have) and take meds properly and have an undetectable viral load (like me). Those LB's that are on meds also would have check ups regularly for other dangerous STD's such as syphilis and hepatitis.
The ones who know but have not faced up to this reality yet would not be volunteering the information, probably would not be on meds yet, or not have been for long enough to get to be undetectable and not got used to the regime yet.
Also often the most dangerous people to catch HIV from are those who don't know themselves yet, because often in new infections there is a period of sickness/fever where the viral load goes through the roof to 1 million copies + before settling back down again.
A standard 'quick test' or antibody HIV check only catches those who have been infected for about 3 months. This casts a lot of doubt over many BM's method of establishing if a girl is 'clean' (including Christianxx).
I have a close LB friend who I tested last month because after a trip back to my home country I got back to LOS and she was not feeling well. She was + with a viral load of just under 1,000,000 copies. She also had syphilis and a lung infection. I am now helping her get help through Dr Philippe. She cannot even start HIV meds until the lung infection is cleared.
If I look at Thai friendly and go through the first few pages there is usually 3 or 4 LB's I personally know are +, and if I look at the forum I often see names that come up of popular LB's I know are + and I am not that bigger face in the community here, and don't look at the forum that much.
My point is that any LB who honestly tells you that that they are HIV+ and undetectable on meds is almost certainly about the safest LB to have sex with, and far safer than an LB who claims they are 'clean' because they went for a 'quick test' last month which was OK.
Hope that gives some food for thought for the guys who would not touch a honest HIV+ LB as per the OP's question with a barge pole.
just a foot note, I WILL NOT be revealing any names of any HIV+ LB's I know in this or any thread or any PM.
Edited by opps1, 17 September 2017 - 05:55 AM.